I used to be sitting in Blackfly's camp. Spending all winter planning-dreaming a canoe trip, springtime organizing an already organized and ready gear pile, and then the trip in summer or autumn would go by in a flash. Whoosh it went, and then back to the planning-dreaming. And let's not even talk about the years when a trip didn't happen. Lotsa glum then a flash of glee, aaaand back to glum again. Ha.
But all that's in the past more or less, because other things have crept up and bit me in the ... no, let me put it in a different way. Other important parts of my life have emerged to fill out my days and shorten my nights. Rather unexpectedly in some cases. Some of it is work, the kind you drag yourself off to after a hurried breakfast leaving a trail of toast crumbs out the door across the porch and onto the car seats. Ditto the dribbled coffee. (I've been meaning to get a travel mug.) I don't want to shock all you happy campers in retirement, but I'm actually enjoying work most days, and I am NOT one of those lost souls who are needy for some kind of "practical purpose" in life. I'm perfectly happy NOT doing things too. Miranda calls it my "natural talent, doing nothing and making it look easy". But I'm just pretty satisfied doing what I do. Weird, I know. I will say this though, I used to really look forward to Mondays and all that exciting stuff at work all week long. Now I look forward to Fridays and all that other not so exciting stuff at home all weekend long. So there's that.
And then there are other mindful activities (maybe mindless to you), such as gardening. After all these years I'm finally getting it together. I can gush for hours about my weedy troubled garden, but it is becoming an oasis of cottagey charm to me. Strawberries, raspberries herbs and veg. And any flowers I can con and coax to contribute to this garden party. I scribble away in my garden planner through the long dark nights of winter, more Aquilegia here, lots more Rudbeckia there, transplant more ferns ....sorry, I did warn you about gushing.
I'm finally finding-making time for DIY projects. Mrs Odyssey is especially relieved about this. She finally might get a new bathroom. ("F-bomb the garden, I want a new tub. With candles".) I have a new garden planned for the front yard for rambling melons and squash complete with cutesy white picket fence, and then there's the new enlarged deck I'm planning...
Bicycling used to be a big part of my life, (cover your ears) far more than canoeing. Cycling has made a sudden reappearance. I chose this little bungalow years ago not just for an easy commute but also because of its proximity to a rather long network of cycling rail trails; in fact they start a city block from our door. We're finally using it and it's as much fun messing around on bikes as it is messing around in boats. I've been planning-dreaming some short to middling distance cycle camping. Fun in the sun, and just in case we have fenders. On short weekends when we don't have time for canoe tripping we go cycle picnicking instead. Pack the panniers, smear the sun block, soup in the fat thermos, tea in the slimmer one, sandwiches in a Tupperware and chilled wine in a soft bottle...and away we go!!
My boss has generously allowed me to explore the kitchen. She gave me a 400 Soups cookbook, and I've been making some killer soups. The freezer is getting crowded with repurposed yogurt containers labelled in black marker Roasted butternut squash curry, Cream of chard and lentil, Beef-barley-bean, Split pea and ham...Friday evening I whipped up a sumptuous meal complete with freshly baked dinner rolls. She kicked off her shoes and as she stretched back sighing said "Get me my pipe and slippers Brad." I laughed a little, to which she replied "No seriously, get me a glass of wine. This feels nice coming home to dinner." I'm beginning to feel Tom Sawyered into this cooking thing but I'm having too much fun in the kitchen. Don't make it stop.
And then there's family. Heavens to Mergatroyd I should forget them. And them includes the dogs. Let me see, I count 4 dogs. Just like little g-kids it is nice to spoil them and then shoo them out the door for home for some peace and quiet..and then pester phone calls from us "When are you gonna come by, we haven't seen you in ages!?" And I can never forget friends. Whether planned or from right outta the blue, get togethers are always special.
Whew! I sound a busy bunny, but truthfully amid all this planned chaos there is a lot of downtime, which gets filled with puttering in the kitchen, rooting around in books, pouring over maps, and surfing the net. I don't know where the time goes. I must be having fun.
I hope you all are too. Waiting for the water to warm up, and planning for that other season.