To try to answer your question, conifers have highly evolved vascular systems. What limits tree height is the Turgor pressure required to hold up a column of water in a tree to its height at the terminal leader. We can measure the suction in atmospheres, bars or lots of other ways. It may be that height growth and competition for light is what has caused conifers to evolve as trees with great height growth.
Longevity is even harder to evaluate. Old growth trees only live a long time because they have not been taken out by fire, drought windthrow, disease, insects or some other calamity. They are resilient, hardy, well adapted, drought tolerant. Conifers are sturdier.
They are more primitive types of plants are Monoecious with both male and female reproductive organs on the same tree. They are Gymnosperms. Importantly they mostly have decurrent growth form which is a single terminal leader and whorls of branches which encourages height growth.