Thanks for the replies, I guess I should have clarified a little more.   Ive been kayaking for over a decade, but the wife feels more comfortable  if we're in the same boat, literally, so last year I picked up an Old  Town Discovery 158 at a block sale for a song.  It came with a pair of  aluminum paddles about our size, and some smaller feather brand paddles  that needed filling and refinishing.  
     I had always intended on  replacing the aluminum paddles, because the plastic blades were slightly  out of true, they are cold, and are much better suited as spares.  With  my significant other it is mainly recreational paddling, and I would  never take her in anything above a class 1, that I know I could safely  maneuver myself.  She will do overnights with me, and likes the idea of a  multi-day trip, but that has yet to be explored. She sits fore and is a  good motor(rowing classes and such) and listens to direction well.  We  mainly sit, but occasionally kneel to change up position on long days. I  paddle it solo a lot on Friday mornings when she works, and kneel or  rest on the thwart and get along fine with a c-stroke.   I do go with a  friend, who is an adept paddler himself, on longer, more challenging  outings in the Adirondacks, but we usually take his canoe, a 17 footer,  and he has some CavPro beavertails. 
     I know my style varies from  the recreational to adventure, and I know I'm not going to find that  happy medium, especially at my price range, which sits at around $125  for a pair.  A responsive paddle, made of decent wood, adequate for  deepwater, that doesn't double as an anchor is really all I'm looking  for...